lomonaaeren

Exactly! Neither of them, I don't think, would be willing to just lie back and take whatever was given to them - pardon the pun lol. I think it would be about both of them wanting each other to feel amazing and with that, you're right, there needs to be more playfulness. It doesn't seem to work that one of them would completely direct the sex and expect it to be great for the other person. The best fics are the ones where they both are in absolute ectasy! Especially when their readers are too :)