I'm continually puzzled by the way "I want you to fuck me" (good phrasing!) or the equivalent is absent from so many stories. The bottom often doesn't demand what he likes, even when he's a "bossy bottom." Instead, the top directs everything, and the character on the bottom is supposedly only there because the other forced him to be or because "he needs to be controlled." Enjoyment needs to be part of more sex stories, along with humor and playfulness.
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Date: 2008-06-04 07:39 pm (UTC)