Oh I have to agree with you on both points you made.
1)"Bottom" for me does not mean weak. I find it interesting that most stories (not all though) where Harry bottoms, he is made out so weak and feminine, but I have seen Draco there too and I don't like it my self. Draco is snarky, Harry is headstrong and I like them that way thank you.
I have no issues with one of them suddenly realizing the other loves them or the depth of the relationship and showing that emotion in bed. This to me isn't about power.
2) I could not agree more on your assessment of "the pedestal and the beggar." As you stated they both screwed up...you have to face both or ignore both; it's not one or the other for me.
3) The making the boys into feminine things (all the time) drives me batty. Draco should be some what of a snarky, sneering ares. Harry should be kind of headstrong, bold and brave; neither should crying, sniffing PMSing little...I wont boy in my story thanks, otherwise I'll read a het fic.
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Date: 2008-06-04 02:16 pm (UTC)1)"Bottom" for me does not mean weak. I find it interesting that most stories (not all though) where Harry bottoms, he is made out so weak and feminine, but I have seen Draco there too and I don't like it my self. Draco is snarky, Harry is headstrong and I like them that way thank you.
I have no issues with one of them suddenly realizing the other loves them or the depth of the relationship and showing that emotion in bed. This to me isn't about power.
2) I could not agree more on your assessment of "the pedestal and the beggar." As you stated they both screwed up...you have to face both or ignore both; it's not one or the other for me.
3) The making the boys into feminine things (all the time) drives me batty. Draco should be some what of a snarky, sneering ares. Harry should be kind of headstrong, bold and brave; neither should crying, sniffing PMSing little...I wont boy in my story thanks, otherwise I'll read a het fic.