I think Draco's problem is understandable. What makes it bad is that he didn't even try to see how the problem affected Harry; he just assumed that Harry had become his disfigurement, and so he didn't really have feelings anymore, he was just there for Draco to react against. Treating disabled people as if they aren't quite people is a very common problem in real life as well.
If it helps, the reason that it's bottom!draco is that there's only one sex scene. That doesn't mean their relationship is like that all the time.
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Date: 2008-11-09 02:57 am (UTC)I think Draco's problem is understandable. What makes it bad is that he didn't even try to see how the problem affected Harry; he just assumed that Harry had become his disfigurement, and so he didn't really have feelings anymore, he was just there for Draco to react against. Treating disabled people as if they aren't quite people is a very common problem in real life as well.
If it helps, the reason that it's bottom!draco is that there's only one sex scene. That doesn't mean their relationship is like that all the time.