Thanks for commenting! I'd been trying to think of a way to explain that "top" and "bottom" may mean something about power to many people, but their basic function is to describe what someone likes/wants to/generally does in bed. It doesn't seem that hard a concept to think about -- any more than "I like my nipples played with." "Really? Mine just aren't very sensitive." would be a way to identify butch and femme for women... unless the participants WANTED it to mean butch/femme, but that's a different rant.

I actually dropped in just to ask a question -- you said a smaller penis is actually more painful? Why? That does go against what I would assume.