I think I see why I didn't understand your point on 1. We were looking at it from different perspectives, It's your bunny/baby, you have infinitely more back story to work with and you don see it as I do. I only viewed it as a sickness and proceeded from there. Form your examples I see what you mean. I won't trouble you any longer and will just wait for the story which it seems is a long way coming.

After all, the evidence so far points to you being able to develop and back up your stories very well, so I will read it and not judge it prematurely.

And I agree that the Harry and Draco you describe seem to have a lot of problems and don't come across as excellent persons, but me being a bit prejudiced towards loving them I didn't really think about it.